Five years ago today, my oldest son USMC Captain Justin D Peterson, deployed to Iraq, where six months later he was killed while returning from a mission. This time of year will always be special in my mind, and I traditionally use “milestone moments” for introspection. Justin’s deployment with a small border transition team is one of those times, in part because it is surrounded with other important family events.
For example, Justin’s only daughter, Caitlin, was born on 6 April 2006, only hours before his deployment, which had already been pushed back allowing him to be present for her birth. How could I ever forget that day, since Justin and Patty had been gracious enough to let me stay with them in the birthing suite at Huron Valley Hospital until I had to race to catch my flight to Great Britain? Forty minutes after saying goodbye to Justin, who had left Patty long enough to walk my wife Debbie and me to the car, he called to say, “Well, Dad, Caitlin’s here!”
However, today as I reflect, I am not only recalling tender moments like the one that I have just described, but also realizing the quagmire in which America has sunk, especially relative to those brave men and women in uniform who hazard their lives to keep us safe, and to the families whose fathers or mothers make additional sacrifices in our stead.
As I write today, the “highest leaders” in our land are embroiled in a budgetary stalemate inside the Beltway, and in what has become their standard modus operandi, they play their political games on the backs of and at the expense of the very people they are charged constitutionally with leading.
Not only does the “establishment” (which includes both Democrats and Republicans) continually operate in such a manner that our children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren will be laden with an unsustainable debt, they also are quite cautious to take steps to protect their own interests, salaries, and eternal benefits! It’s time that every elected official at every level of government, especially Washington, D.C., throws himself or herself into a new caution—a caution to truly protect the populous whom they are to represent—even if it means throwing themselves on their own swords, as it were.
The latest political ploy—a government shutdown—appears to have little meaning to Washington. Oh, I know—they trot themselves in front of cameras at every opportunity and talk—spewing a rhetoric that has worn terribly thin with the grassroots who pay not only their absorbent salary and benefit packages while they (in particular the Obama administration) are now threatening the meager paychecks of our troops and their families.
Let me be clear—this gets personal, especially when I watch my five-year-old granddaughter blowing out her birthday candles, and I fight back the tears, realizing that this little girl will never know her daddy, other than the pictures and stories that others tell her. Her mother and brothers are now being threatened with a cash flow shutdown by the very president that swore to uphold the constitution with a genuine concern for the people of this nation—including little girls whose daddies go off to fight for freedom!
Maybe it would be a great idea for America to stop paying the people that we have elected to represent us in the House, Senate, and the White House until they establish a sustainable budget for each fiscal year. And when they vote on bills for which they do not appropriate adequate funds, reduce their take-home pay by that same amount—in other words; let the fiscal irresponsibility be borne by the fiscally irresponsible people who fail at doing their jobs.
Oh, and while we’re at it, why not scrap the special health care and retirement programs they all enjoy at this time and run them through the VA hospitals and Social Security?
Yes, as I reflect today, I’m very proud of my son Justin and his contribution to America. However, I am ashamed of those men and women in Washington who, under a guise of caring about this great nation, are continually making choices and casting votes that are undermining this country and violating the very principles that lead to God’s blessings and the prosperity of our nation.
And, just in case I have been too vague, that means that I am ashamed of much of what Barack Hussein Obama has done and is doing as my president. The same is true for my Michigan Senators Carl Levin and Debbie Stabenow.
BTW, do you pray? If so, would you join me in praying that somehow, by His miraculous working, God would so speak to the hearts and minds of those we have elected, that once again common sense, honesty, and truth would begin to prevail inside the Beltway, in state capitols, and in local municipalities?
(Ezekiel 22:30 KJV) And I sought for a man among them, that should make up the hedge, and stand in the gap before me for the land, that I should not destroy it: but I found none.
How desperately we should pray that, as God continually looks for such men and women today, He will find such a person—in Washington, in Michigan, and in my house!
Semper fi, troops!
I am always drawn to expressed thoughts of someone who has suffered and survived so great a loss as yours. You have a perspective that only a few will ever have. Thank you for your transparency.
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Well said. I grew up at Temple Baptist and remember hearing that your son was killed. Was just emailing with my nephew who is in the Army and facing a payless payday for his young family. My prayers are with you at this sad time of the year and for our country.
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Thank you Dale for posting this. Justin is an amazing hero who is now enjoying his reward, but he paid the ultimate price to protect our freedom and to liberate those who are oppressed. I know you are proud of him and I cannot imagine the hurt that you must feel listening to all of the pathetic politicking going on in Washington right now.
Praying for you and your family during this time of remembrance and praying that Caitlyn will have more just a glimpse of her Daddy in her Grandfather and most of all, in her Heavenly Father. God bless you and your family, my friend.
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